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Trip to the Dumpster

So today as I was leaving my apartment, I checked my mail. Net Flix (check), bill (check), Junk Mail (check).
I headed straight to the dumpster with the Junk Mail. The junk mail was in the same hand as my keys. My keys made it to the dumpster, the junk mail didn't.

So great. I am locked out of my house and my car. My keys are in the dumpster and DD is standing with me. What are the options??

I had to climb into the dumpster to get my keys. The Dumpster had just been emptied. So I am standing in this mush that can only be bacteria, faeces and every kind of undesireable organism that you can imagine. I pick up my keys, also covered in this mush.

And then realise that it is a lot easier to get into the dumpster than it is to get out.
DD is standing there screaming. She is terrified that I am trapped in the dumpster forever. I am starting to panic....What if someone see me in the dumpster, what if I can't get out???? All of these questions.
Eventually I see a ledge that I can stand on and I manage to get myself out.

I was filthy! My keys were filthy, DD was petrified.

Note to myself...Hold my keys in a different hand than my trash!!!

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Visitation

Things have been very hectic for the last few weeks and I have not had a chance to post too much.

So in my last post I mentioned about the haircut that POS ex was giving to DD. Turns out he was lying and he was just trying to annoy me by saying that he did.

Since that time I have not spoken to Ex. He is an abusive person and I have had enough. I had also been paying his phone bill so I shut it off.

This works well for me as everytime I see him he feels the need to criticise my every action and to let me know how I am just not good enough.

The only problem is that DD asks for her father ALL THE TIME. I feel so bad for her. I keep telling her "Daddy is sick(well he is an alcoholic)".

What should I do? I am at a loss.

I would not mind DD seeing her father if it was at his sister's house but I do not want to talk to him to arrange anything. I feel like I have tried hard enough to figure things out. He never wanted to play along. Now I quit. I refuse to make anymore effort for him.

There!

First Haircut

My daughter has fine hair. She is only 21 mths after all.
I struggle with her on a daily basis about her hair.
She does not want to brush it.
She does not want pretties in it but I continue this struggle as I want her hair to be all one length and cute into a nice shape.

Sooooo I am so mad as I type this.
Her reeree dad decided that he wanted to cut her hair. He told me over the phone last night.
She is visiting with him. I expressed to him "DO NOT cut her hair. I have been trying to grow it out before it is cut. I am her mother I make decisions with her hair. I feel strongly about this and I do not want it to happen."

I got a text message this morning saying he cut her hair, front and back, himself.

WTF he is not a hairdresser. Who does that? I know it was to piss me off.

Well ya know what I hate to be petty and all but if you want to do things to piss me off I am pretty sure I can piss you off too!!! hahahahaha evil laugh.
He is going to wish he did not mess with me!